Thursday, August 11, 2011
WHEN DOES A AUNT OR UNCLE GET RIGHTS
WELL MY QUESTION IS DOES AUNT AND UNCLES HAVE ANY RIGHTS. THIS PAST YEAR MY HUSBAND AND I TOOK GUARDIANSHIP OF MY NEPHEW WHICH WAS 6 AT THE TIME HE IS NOW 7. WE HAVE TOOK CARE OF HIM AND HAS PAID ALL HIS EXPENSIVES FOR THE PAST YEAR IN A HALF. HIS PARENT WHICH IS MY BROTHER ONLY SEEN HIM 6 TIMES IN THE PAST YEAR. WHICH WAS AT MY EXPENSE TO TAKE HIM TO SEE THEM. BUT THEY ARE INTO DRUGS,ALCOHOL,BUMMING OFF ANY ONE THAT ALLOWS IT. HIM AND HIS WIFE ARE 26 YRS OLD. THEY DO NOT HOLD JOBS AND WHEN THEY DO THEY USE THE MONEY ON THEIR HABITS. THEY HAVE A DAUGHTER BUT THEY TAKE CARE OF HER. BUT NOT THERE SON. SO WE TOOK HIM IN AND HE IS LIKE OUR OWN. WELL THIS WEEK THEY DECIDED WE COULDNT KEEP HIM. THEY DONT WANT HIM BUT THEY DONT WANT US TO HAVE HIM FOR SOME REASON. WE HAVE PAID HIS HEALTH INSURANCE FOR THE PAST YEAR. AND THANK GOD WE DID, MY NEPHEW GOT A ILLNESS CALLED TULAREMIA AND GOT REALLY SICK HE WAS IN THE HOSPITAL FOR THREE WEEKS AND THEY NEVER CALLED OR CAME TO SEE HIM AND HE HAD SURGERY WHICH I CALLED AND TOLD THEM BUT THERE EXCUSE WAS NO MONEY. BUT THEY WENT TO SEE THERE FRIEND IN THE HOSPITAL A BLOCK AWAY. HE IS ONE OF THERE DRUG BUDDIES. MY NEPHEW TOLD THEM HE WANTED TO LIFE WITH US THAT THEY LIVE DIRTY AND WITHOUT FOOD IN THERE HOUSE AND WITHOUT WATER AND ELECTRIC SOMETIME. HE KNOW AT 7 WHAT HE WANTS. HE WANTS TO LIVE IN A BETTER ENVIROMENT. AND GET A GOOD EDUCATION. WHEN HE LIVED WITH THEM HE FLUNKED K. CAUSE THEY WOULD NOT GO TO PARENT TEACHER CONFERENCES OR GET UP TO TAKE HIM TO SCHOOL. HE KNOW WHAT HIS PARENTS DO. I PUT HIM IN THERAPY CAUSE WHEN I FIRST GOT HIM HE WOULD VOMIT AFTER HANGING UP THE PHONE FROM TALKING TO THEM. OR HAVE NIGHTMARES. HE IS SO LOVEABLE. MY HEART IS SO BROKEN RIGH TNOW. IM WORRIED FOR HIM AND HIS SISTER. BUT HOW DO YOU GET SOMEONE TO LISTEN AND HELP THIS KID THAT KNOWS WHAT HE WANTS. THE LAW SEEMS TO PROTECT THESE PEOPLE. WHO HELPS AND PROTECTS THE INNOCENT CHILDREN. WE ARE SUPPOSE TO BE ABOUT OUR KIDS. BUT IF YOUR NOT THE PARENTS YOU VERY SELDOM HAVE A CHANCE. WHEN DOES SOMEONE STEP UP AND HELP RELATIVES TAKE CONTROL IN THESE TYPE OFSITUATIONS. I COULD GO ON FOR DAYS ABOUT ALL THE BAD THINGS THEY DO. I LIVE IN ARKANSAS AND I HAVE CALLED ATTORNEY BUT THEY TELL ME THE SAME THING THEY PARENTS WILL GET A YEAR TO STRAIGHTEN UP AND THEY USUALLY GET WARNED WHEN THEY WILL BE DRUG TESTED. WELL HOW FARE IS THAT. DO I STAND A CHANCE? WHO DO I CALL TO HELP ME GET MY NEPHEW BACK AND HIS SISTER. ANY HELP I WOULD APPRECIATE. I DO NOT WANT THEM IN FOSTER CARE AT ALL OR IN DHS NOT WHEN IM FINIACIALLY AND ABLE TO TAKE CARE OF THEM.
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